If you’re interested in exploring the world of swinging, you might be wondering how you can make your experiences even more exciting. One great way to do this is by incorporating sex toys into your swinging adventures. Not only can toys make sex more pleasurable, but they can also help you explore new sensations and fantasies with your partner(s).
Must have toys
One of the most popular and versatile sex toys for swinging couples is the vibrator. Vibrators can be used on all parts of the body, including the clitoris, penis, nipples, and anus, and can be a great way to enhance pleasure for both partners. There are many different types of vibrators available, including bullet vibes, wand vibes, and rabbit vibes, so you can choose one that best suits your needs and preferences.
Dildos are another popular sex toy for swinging couples. Like vibrators, dildos come in many different shapes and sizes, and can be used for both vaginal and anal penetration. Some dildos are even designed to be used with a harness, which can add a new level of excitement to your swinging adventures.
- Butt plugs
For those who are interested in anal play, butt plugs can be a great addition to your swinging toy collection. Butt plugs come in many different sizes and shapes, and can be used to stimulate the anus and prostate. They can also be a great way to prepare for anal sex, as they can help to relax the muscles and make penetration more comfortable.
- Bondage gear
If you’re interested in exploring BDSM and kink during your swinging adventures, bondage gear can be a great way to do so. Bondage gear can include things like handcuffs, ropes, and blindfolds, and can be used to enhance sensations and create a sense of power exchange between partners. Just be sure to discuss boundaries and safe words with your partner(s) before incorporating bondage into your play.
Stay tuned for part 2, where we’ll talk about more cool toys to play with during sex!
Even more toys!
In part 1, we talked about some popular sex toys for swinging couples, including vibrators, dildos, butt plugs, and bondage gear. Here are a few more cool toys to consider incorporating into your swinging adventures:
Sex swings can be a fun way to explore new positions and angles during sex. They allow one partner to be suspended in the air while the other partner can penetrate from various angles. Some sex swings even come with built-in vibrators or other stimulators for added pleasure.
Nipple clamps can be a great way to add a little pain and pleasure to your swinging adventures. They come in many different styles and intensities, from gentle suction cups to more intense clamps that can be adjusted for varying levels of pressure.
For male swingers interested in exploring prostate stimulation, a prostate massager can be a great toy to try. These toys are designed to be inserted into the anus and stimulate the prostate, which can lead to powerful orgasms and new sensations.
- Remote-controlled toys
Remote-controlled sex toys can be a fun way to add a little excitement to your swinging adventures. With these toys, one partner can control the other’s pleasure from afar, adding a new level of anticipation and excitement to your play.
- Cock rings
Cock rings are another popular toy for male swingers. These rings are worn around the base of the penis and can help to enhance erections, delay ejaculation, and increase sensitivity. Some cock rings even come with built-in vibrators or other stimulators for added pleasure.
Remember, when incorporating sex toys into your swinging adventures, it’s important to communicate openly with your partner(s) about what you’re comfortable with and what you’re not. Always use toys safely and follow any instructions or guidelines that come with them.
Stay tuned for part 3, where we’ll talk about some tips for using sex toys during swinging!
So, you’ve got your sex toys all ready to go. Now what? Here are a few tips for using sex toys during swinging:
- Communicate openly with your partner(s)
Before incorporating sex toys into your swinging adventures, it’s important to have a frank discussion with your partner(s) about what you’re interested in, what you’re comfortable with, and what your boundaries are. Make sure everyone is on the same page and that everyone feels safe and respected.
- Use plenty of lube
Lube can be your best friend when it comes to using sex toys. Not only can it make penetration more comfortable, but it can also enhance sensations and prevent discomfort or injury. Just be sure to choose a lube that is compatible with your toys and your bodies.
- Clean your toys properly
Toys should be cleaned before and after each use to prevent the spread of bacteria and infections. Follow any instructions or guidelines that come with your toys, and use a mild soap and warm water to clean them thoroughly.
- Start slow
If you’re new to using sex toys during swinging, it’s a good idea to start slow and work your way up. Experiment with different toys and sensations, but don’t feel like you have to try everything at once. Take your time and enjoy the journey.
- Be mindful of others
If you’re attending a swinging event or party, be mindful of others around you when using sex toys. Keep noise levels reasonable and be respectful of others’ boundaries and desires.
By following these tips, you can ensure that using sex toys during swinging is safe, fun, and enjoyable for everyone involved.
Stay tuned for part 4, where we’ll talk about some common mistakes to avoid when using sex toys during swinging!
In part 3, we talked about some tips for using sex toys during swinging, including communicating openly with your partner(s), using plenty of lube, and being mindful of others around you. Here are a few common mistakes to avoid when using sex toys during swinging:
- Using toys without consent
It’s important to always ask for and receive consent before incorporating sex toys into your swinging adventures. Don’t assume that everyone is comfortable with the same things you are, and always respect others’ boundaries and desires.
- Sharing toys without proper cleaning
If you’re using sex toys with multiple partners, it’s important to clean them thoroughly between uses to prevent the spread of bacteria and infections. Use a mild soap and warm water, and follow any instructions or guidelines that come with your toys.
- Using toys that are not body-safe
Not all sex toys are created equal, and some may be made with materials that are not safe for use in or on the body. Look for toys that are made from body-safe materials, such as silicone or glass, and avoid toys that contain phthalates or other harmful chemicals.
- Using toys improperly
Toys should always be used as directed and with care. Improper use can lead to discomfort, injury, or even permanent damage. If you’re unsure how to use a toy, consult the instructions or do some research online before trying it out.
- Using toys to compensate for communication issues
Sex toys can be a fun addition to your swinging adventures, but they should never be used as a substitute for communication. If you’re experiencing issues with communication or intimacy, talk to your partner(s) openly and honestly about what you’re feeling.
By avoiding these common mistakes, you can ensure that using sex toys during swinging is safe, fun, and enjoyable for everyone involved.
Remember, communication and consent are key when it comes to swinging and sex toys. By communicating openly with your partner(s) and being respectful of others’ boundaries and desires, you can have a fun and satisfying swinging experience.